Dianna ~ ~ 23 ~ ~ For a year or two of my college life, I made a habit of not brushing my hair when I woke up for morning classes at school; henceforth, my classmates called me bedhead. All beings have their own Waterloo - a weak point in their life. You can either beat yourself up over it or get the heck over it. It's sort of like being reborn in a sense, like the phoenix rising from its ashes and flying to the glittering horizon. In any situation, win-win or lose-lose, you just have to, "put up your fists and hope for the best".
Every relationship is a sojourn, don't waste that voyage by not gaining wisdom from that person.